SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？

SOLO一族是成年男女组成的一种新型的单身集团，既不结婚，也不同居，而是与一名固定的、忠诚的异性保持密切的关系。同时依然生活在各自“小家庭”内的单身男子和女子。他们跟人数众多的同居者不同，他们就是不愿跟心上人组成一对，生活在同一个屋檐下。他们是放单的恋人，在英国被称为“分居共过”，在法国被称为“半同居”，还有一个更形象化的字眼，叫SOLO（独唱，独奏）。称之为时尚，还大言不谗地说这叫小别胜新婚，两个人在一起就要互相给对方足够的自由。这种方式真的是明智之举吗？为什么几乎是年轻人在喊这样的口号呢？还是他们对婚姻根本就没有足够的理解，还是把双方互相推向外界接受新的诱惑呢？
SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？你是否可以接受如此的生活？
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I can't accept this kind of relationship. I think they don't love each other. What they want is just sex.

I want to know why do choose this topic to discuss ?

this is a popular topic
and we are young peole
we can quickly accept the new things
maybe someone like this kind of feeling and will accept it.
and lovers also need some  personal space and freedom.
Maybe SOLO is a good way for lovers keeping some feeling of fresh and missing
and different people have different ideas
and for love we all have our ideas
so everyone  can have some  words to say
and i choose this topic
but as far as i am concerned i can't accept
the reason i will give you later

actually ,I am a traditional category and I can't  accept it , I think there is nothing valuble between each other, except  sex.

I can't accept this cause the best respect you can give your beloved woman is a marriage proposal~~

存在即为合理，既然延续下来了，必然有它存在的理由